hi , it's me again , back !
i think some rediculous day may come.. soon? hope not .. how soon ? i don't know.. but i can c it.
that day when i won't & can't talk to anybody.. coz nobody can't give me any real talk then .. at all !
best thing in egyptian -eastern culture that we often don't need "shrinks " or "psychiatrists" as people in the west & US do.. they often need someone they can talk to .. express .. tell him what really bothers u .. real things.. frank talking.. mostly about u & surrounding people & events , someone to LISTEN ..just listen !
we don't go to "shrinks" for this purpose , coz we really - as part of egyptian / arabic culture - do A LOT of talking .. toooo much talking .. about almost everything ..
may be western culture r somehow sensitive or conservative about "nagging" & neagtive talking .. so as not to bother one another they pay hell of money to 'shrinks" just to listen ..to talk out .. but here people talk mostly about their negative & deppressive emotions to almost everyone as much & common like drinking ur everyday tea ! usually families play this part & friends .. peolpe who knows u .. or act to!
what worries me .. that someday i may not find anyone i can really talk to ..
no one i can talk to some real talk .. some real feelings ..not just stupid idle talk & " cliches "
COZ THERE WON'T B ANYBODY WHO REALLY KNOWS ME ..
NO ONE REALLY KNOWS ME ..
nobody cares..
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